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This tip to cure premature ejaculation involves us males learning how to change our mindset during sex. One of the main reasons men suffer from premature ejaculation is because they have a negative mindset. Basically, our minds rule our body. If we are sad, we cry. If we are happy, we smile and walk confidently. And yes, if we have the wrong mindset during sex, we climax too early.

Most men who suffer from premature ejaculation are very conscious of the fact that they don’t last long enough in bed to satisfy their partners and even themselves (emotionally). Even right at the beginning of any intimacy with their partner they are already thinking that they wish they could last longer than last time. They have the constant nagging thought of “I hope I don’t ejaculate too soon”.

Already here we can see a very negative mindset developing and if not treated quickly this way of thinking can become quite entrenched into a premature ejaculation sufferer’s mind. The problem here is that most males are already thinking too far ahead during their love-making that they forget to focus on the “here” and “now”. Their anxieties take over and before you know it – Bang! – It’s all over red rover… They have come to early once again.

This tip/technique teaches you to create a positive mindset and focus on the present during sex and not think about what “might” happen in the future during sex. Most men don’t realize that by focusing on what might happen – ejaculating too soon, takes their focus off what is actually happening – moving up the stimulation scale. By losing this focus most males forget to identify how close they are to an orgasm and usually by this stage it is too late for its prevention.

What males need to do during love-making is focus on their self-awareness and stay in touch with the present. This technique is used during the plateau stage of sex (the hard part where your sense of stimulation is reasonably high). What needs to happen is that every now and then you need to ask yourself a couple of questions inside your head:

1. “Do I feel tense, or relaxed?”
2. “How close am I to reaching orgasm?”

Actually say each word in your head. If you feel tense after asking yourself the first question ie. notice shoulders are tight, stomach tense when it doesn’t need to be etc. your body will actually naturally try and relax itself – the psychology of the question allows your mind to bring you back to the situation at hand which hence helps you relax.

The second question “How close am I to reaching orgasm?” is something you should be asking yourself right throughout sex – this helps you identify where you are on the stimulation scale and also allows your mind to bring you back into the present and keep you focused.

By creating this positive mindset you will allow yourself to stay in control of your stimulation levels and any possible negative thoughts. You will see a dramatic change in the length of your love-making and hopefully put an end to your premature ejaculation problem for good.

With nearly over 75% of males all over the world suffering from premature ejaculation it is important to know and remember that you are not alone. But the fact is that most premature ejaculation sufferer’s can be cured. Here are some more proven and effective tips to cure premature ejaculation.

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